I started this blog with one daughter, kept it up with the other, to spend time together doing something we enjoyed.
However, things change and people evolve. My daughters are older, busier, and not as interested in writing.
From now on this blog will be mostly mom with occasional contributions from my daughters and maybe even my husband.
Nothing else will change. We'll still focus on sharing fun places to go, fun things to do, and more, and we would  still love to hear your views too

Wednesday, June 4, 2025

Where-To-Go Wednesday - Deep Cut Gardens


What: Deep Cut Gardens 

Where: 352 Red Hill Rd. 
            Middletown, NJ 

 Who: All ages



Deep Cut Gardens is part of the Monmouth County Park System. The park consists of 54 acres of gardens and greenhouses. It is full of beautiful, colorful plants and flowers. Some of them have the craziest names like Hot Tamales, Julia Child, or Livin' Easy. There is also a fish-filled lily pond. 



It's a great place to take a pleasant walk around and enjoy nature on a nice day. For those who are interested, backpacks are available to borrow at the Horticultural Center to guide you on your stroll and ensure you don't miss anything. There are activities to participate in, including free lectures, demonstrations, or crafts. Guided greenhouse tours are also available. If you prefer a more relaxed visit, you can sit on a bench or the grass and take in the beautiful surroundings, or enjoy a fun picnic.



Entry to the park is completely free. Free parking is also available on site.  Deep Cut Gardens is open all year round from 8:00 AM until dusk. 



And that's our view. For more information, visit www.monmouthcountyparks.com/page.aspx?ID=2518

Tune in tomorrow for Theater Thursday. 

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Tuesday, June 3, 2025

Tips for Tuesday - Books: Amelia, If Only, He's to Die For, & The Bachelorette Party

We may have been given complimentary copies and/or access for review purposes to any books, products, and/or any other visual or audio media mentioned below. Any and all opinions expressed here are our own.

Books: Amelia, If Only, He's To Die For, & The Bachelorette Party


Me - Amelia, If Only by Becky Albertalli is a cute book! It follows a girl named Amelia, who embarks on a road trip with her best friends to go to a meet-and-greet for her favorite content creator.

Amelia was bold, goofy, and enjoyable to read about, and I liked her friends as well. None of them are the most fleshed-out characters, but they were distinct from each other, and they were fun to follow.

The queer representation was great, as I've found to be the case in most, if not all, of Becky Albertalli's books. I loved that almost all of the characters were casually queer and that Albertalli touched on some important topics within the LGBTQ+ community, as she usually does. She has a way of weaving significant issues such as queerbaiting/accusations of queerbaiting into her books in a way that is thought-provoking and meaningful without being too in your face or pulling readers out of the story.

Another super fun element of this book, particularly for fans of Albertalli's previous works, was the cameos. Characters from her two most recent books briefly popped up in this one, and it was so nice to see them again.

The plot was interesting as well. It dealt with fame and the parasocial relationships that many people form with their favorite celebrities. For anyone who has read and enjoyed I Was Born For This by Alice Oseman, I'd definitely recommend checking this book out, or vice versa, as they both contain fascinating discussions about fame, fandom, and the intersection between the two.

My main issue when reading this was the romance, or lack thereof. Don't get me wrong, I think Amelia and Natalie were super cute together, and I enjoyed the sweet little moments they shared throughout the book. However, in my opinion, we didn't get nearly enough of them. Albertalli's books usually put character development and growth at the forefront while romance takes the backseat, but in this book, particularly, there was hardly any romance. It was obvious that the characters liked each other, but it was only acknowledged in the most subtle of ways until nearly the end of the book. I would've liked to see more interaction between the two of them rather than so much of the relationship development existing only in Amelia's inner thoughts.

That said, this was a fast-paced, enjoyable book, and for those who love Albertalli's writing, or those who love a feel-good young adult contemporary with a small subplot of romance, I'd recommend giving it a try.


Mom - Today, I am recommending He's to Die For by Erin Dunn. When hotshot young police detective, Ray Trivedi, is assigned to investigate the murder of a record executive, he finds himself falling for the main suspect, rock star Jack Vale. Although this initial hook, which draws you into the story, is quickly resolved as it needs to be to keep the main character on the right side of the law and likable, the plot remains sufficiently interesting.  The mystery is exciting enough, and there are enough twists and turns to maintain the reader's interest. However, it is the romance that really stands out in this story, and while the sexual descriptions get graphic at times, the murder and other mystery-related ones don't.  

Ray and Jack are both extremely likable characters. They are sweet and caring, and together they are adorable. You can't help rooting for them to get their happily ever after.  If you enjoy murder mysteries with a generous helping of romance, you should like this book. 


Mom again - Today, I am talking about The Bachelorette Party by Camilla Sten. Driven by her fascination with the story of four friends who disappeared from a secret island, Tessa became a true crime podcaster. Now, ten years after the disappearance, she and several others arrive on the very same island for a bachelorette party, and Tessa is determined to find out what happened to the four. 

Although the premise of this book is quite intriguing, the execution of the story is disappointing. You never really feel like you get to know the four girls who previously disappeared that much, except for Matilda. The others are like afterthoughts whose stories are only important in how they relate to hers, making them much less interesting. In the present day, Tessa and the bride-to-be, Anneliese, are supposed to be best friends, but they do not seem close at all. If they are not and they have really drifted apart that much, it doesn't make sense that Anneliese would still invite Tessa to be part of her wedding. 

The mystery is not handled that well either. The solution only makes limited sense. It kind of comes out of left field and is unsatisfying. Plus, there is a lot of violence, and some of it is quite graphically described.  Accordingly, if you don't like mysteries with a lot of violence, this is not the book for you.  However, if you do,  you might enjoy this book. 

And that's our view. He's to Die For publishes today. Amelia, If Only and The Bachelorette Party will publish next Tuesday, June 10. 

Tune in tomorrow for Where-To-Go Wednesday.

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Monday, June 2, 2025

More Theater Monday - O.K.!

We received complimentary tickets to O.K.! for review purposes. Any and all opinions expressed here are our own


What: O.K.!

Where: Intar Theatre
             500 W. 52nd St., 4th Fl
             New York, NY

Who: Recommended for Ages 17 and Up

When: Through June 8, 2025



O.K.! is a dark show that contemplates the sorry state of affairs of the world we are living in, where, in many states, women no longer even have control over their own bodies. While touring with a knockoff version of the musical Oklahoma,  and stuck in the state of Oklahoma, just as abortion has been banned, the show's main character, Melinda, finds herself dealing with an unwanted pregnancy  Accordingly, topics discussed within the show include not only abortion, but other things like sex and rape that are not only inappropriate for children but may be triggering for some adults as well.


In the role of Melinda, Danaya Esperanza is quite affecting. This is clearly a woman who really wants to do what's best for herself and her unborn child without being forced into a decision by forces beyond her control.  Her performance is ably supported by her castmates and coworkers, both in life and within the show, Yadira Correra, Claudia Ramos Jordan, and Christina Pitter.  Correra's Jolie is a woman who has lived through a lot herself and hides her own secrets behind a tough exterior. Ramos Jordan's Elena is a ballsy and confident young woman who has not yet been forced to face the tough realities of womanhood that the others have. Pitter, as the tough but surprisingly understanding stage manager, Alex, is the fourth and final cast member. Pitter also plays several other small roles in the show.


On the lighter side, the show offers a fascinating glimpse at the preshow process of putting on a show. We get to observe the characters as they arrive at the theater and throughout their time getting ready for the performance, including the surprisingly long process of getting into costumes, doing their stage makeup, and more. Focusing on that aspect provides a brief respite from the heaviness of the play, although not for long, as the show's central dilemma is too important to shy away from. It forces us to contemplate the kind of world we want to live in and how we can get there from where we are now. 


And that's our view. For more about O.K.! or to purchase tickets, visit www.intartheatre.org/now-playing

Tune in tomorrow for Tips for Tuesday.

Photo credits:
All O.K.! production photos by Valerie Terranova

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