I started this blog with one daughter, kept it up with the other, to spend time together doing something we enjoyed.
However, things change and people evolve. My daughters are older, busier, and not as interested in writing.
From now on this blog will be mostly mom with occasional contributions from my daughters and maybe even my husband.
Nothing else will change. We'll still focus on sharing fun places to go, fun things to do, and more, and we would  still love to hear your views too

Wednesday, March 11, 2026

Where-To-Go Wednesday - Stirring the Melting Pot

We received complimentary tickets to the New York Historical for review purposes. Any and all opinions expressed here are our own. 


What: Stirring the Melting Pot

Where: New York Historical
             170 Central Park W.
             New York, NY

Who: All ages

When: Through March 29, 2026



The current exhibition at the New York Historical, Stirring the Melting Pot, features a collection of objects and photographs from the museum's collection that capture the immigrant experience in America. The exhibit covers all aspects of life, including work, school, religion, and more.  



There is also a special section of the exhibit devoted to the General Solcum disaster. This event occurred in 1904 when a passenger steamboat caught fire and sank. 1, 201 of the 1,3,42 passengers aboard were killed. The exhibit specifically traces the tragedy's effect on one family.



For more about Stirring the Melting Pot or to purchase tickets to visit the museum, go to www.nyhistory.org/exhibitions/stirring-the-melting-pot-photographs-from-the-new-york-historical-collection

Tune in tomorrow for Theater Thursday.

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Tuesday, March 10, 2026

Tips for Tuesday: Every Step She Takes, It Girl, & Big Nobody; Movie: Out of Darkness: Heavy is the Crown Vol 2.

We may have been given complimentary copies and/or access for review purposes to any books, products, and/or any other visual or audio media mentioned below. Any and all opinions expressed here are our own.

Books: Every Step She TakesIt Girl & Big Nobody


Me - Every Step She Takes by Alson Cochrun is such a great book!

Cochrun is a master at crafting characters who feel entirely well-rounded and real. I fell in love with both Sadie and Mal as soon as they were introduced, and that love only continued to grow throughout the book. These characters have unique personalities, motivations, interests, goals, quirks, and flaws, and we get to know them so well. By the time I finished reading, it felt like they were my friends. I personally related to Sadie a lot from her anxious thoughts, to her nervous rambling, to her awkwardness, to her fear of being incorrigibly behind in life, and it’s always special to find a character who makes you feel seen. 

Although I didn’t have as much in common with Mal, I resonated with certain tendencies of her too. I think most people, like me, will relate to aspects of Mal or Sadie, if not both. Even if not, they were both so endearing and likable that I can’t imagine wanting anything but the best for them. Each of them was dealing with their own respective troubles throughout the book– for Sadie, coming to terms with her sexuality in her mid-thirties and learning to live for herself in front of other people, and for Mal, grieving the loss of the father whom she’d been estranged from for years and learning to face her problems head-on instead of running from them. Each of their personal journeys was fleshed out and well-balanced with the romance, and it was so rewarding to see how each of them grew by the end.

The relationship happened quickly. The majority of the book took place over just two weeks; however, their chemistry was so strong and their feelings developed so naturally that nothing ever felt rushed or insta-lovey. These two fit together so well. Mal brought out Sadie's adventurous side
, and Sadie brought out Mal's vulnerability. They were so supportive and encouraging of each other. The banter was also very cute, and I just loved seeing these two together. I also loved that they helped each other work through their respective personal struggles, both intentionally and not, and neither of them was presented as a cure-all for the other’s problems.

This story was more character-driven than plot-driven, but it was enjoyable following their trek along the Camino de Santiago. Their adventures throughout the journey were entertaining, and Sadie and Mal’s tour guide and tourmates, while not the most fleshed-out side characters, each had distinct personalities and contributed to the story in a positive and fun way. The bond that formed between the whole group was really sweet as well.  

This book was funny, romantic, and moving. It contained a beautiful romance between two people who learned to love themselves and their lives while falling in love with each other. It was a reminder that each of our lives follows its own unique timeline, and it’s never too late to embrace who you are and go after the life you want.

If you enjoy stories about falling in love, self-discovery, community– especially queer community, or travel, I’d highly recommend this book. If you’ve enjoyed other books by Alison Cochrun I’d highly recommend this book. If you love romance, especially sapphic romance, I’d highly recommend this book. If you’re a fan of Casey McQuiston’s writing style, I’d highly recommend this book. I find Cochrun's writing to be similar to theirs in many ways. Basically,  I loved this book,  and I think anyone who enjoys authentic characters, meaningful relationships, and important messages and themes should read it. I am very eagerly awaiting whatever this author does next!


Mom - Today, I recommend It Girl by Allison Pataki. Evelyn Nesbit was a beautiful model and actress in the early 20th Century. She was at the center of the so-called "crime of the century," in which her husband, a railroad tycoon,  Harry Thaw, murdered her lover, Stanford White, a renowned architect known for designing the original Madison Square Garden, among other things.  This book is a loose retelling of her life story, but with a twist.

Evelyn Talbot and her family are destitute after the death of her father. After being forced to quit school and get a job in a shop, she is discovered and recruited as a model. She soon becomes her family's primary breadwinner. However, as she quickly rises in her career and eventually becomes a beloved performer, not everything is as rosy as it seems. Eventually, everything comes to a head and she finds herself at the center of the ultimate scandal. 

Reading this book is a reminder that the grass is not always greener on the other side, and just because someone's life seems charmed, that may not actually be the case. From the outside looking in, Evelyn Talbot's life seems worthy of envy. She is not only beautiful and beloved, but also has an incredibly successful career. However, as she is clearly surrounded by people who claim to care about her but never really have her best interest at heart, she is an extremely sympathetic character whom the reader can't help but root for.

Even her mother is more interested in status and wealth than her own daughter. She could give the worst of stage mothers a run for their money. In fact, mothers in this story don't fare well; the other main one is also a bad mother. While Evelyn's mother doesn't care about her daughter enough, Mrs. Thorne, the matriarch of a wealthy railroad family, cares about her son too much. As a result, both seek to control their children for their own purposes and are cold and uncaring rather than warm and loving.

Men don't fare well in this book either. They are either controlling creeps or simpering cowards. Evelyn deserves so much better. Thankfully, she is a plucky character with admirable inner strength that allows her to persevere despite whatever life (or, particularly, the men in her life) throws at her.

The book can be hard to read at times, though, because sometimes it feels like it's all just too much and you don't want to see Evelyn suffer anymore (which only makes you feel more sorry for the real Evelyn Nesbit, who did not possess half as much strength and perseverance). However, it is all worth it in the end because the book has one of the most satisfying endings of any book ever. 


Today, I also recommend Big Nobody by Alex Kadis. After the death of her mother and younger brothers, Connie is left alone with her controlling father, whom she blames for their deaths and literally wants to kill. Other than planning ways to accomplish this, she spends most of her time talking to the rock posters that adorn her walls.  Her only social outlet is the weekly get-togethers with their community of fellow Greek immigrants, where the bright spot in her life is sneaking cigarettes and more with her friend, Vas. 

This book is described as extremely funny, but it is more sad than funny. Connie is saddled with a horribly abusive father who clearly has no regard for her welfare but just wants to control her. The indignities she suffers at his hands are heartbreaking.  

However, the book's salvation and Connie's as well is the brash and boisterous Greek community that she is part of. They are a quirky lot with an abundance of heart who mostly actually do have her best interests at heart, even if she doesn't always see it or let them help her. They elevate this book from a depressing story of abuse to an inspiring one about finding one's people and one's place in the world. 

Movie: Out of the Darkness: Heavy is the Crown Vol 2


Today, we are talking about Out of Darkness: Heavy is the Crown Vol 2. This documentary is the sequel to the earlier film, Out of the Darkness: Heavy is the Crown Vol. 1,  which we discussed in an early post and which covers the history of the African people. This film delves into the origin of the world's religions. It is thoughtful and raises some important issues about religions in general. However, with a running time of over two hours, it eventually becomes tedious and less engaging. 

And that's our view. Every Step She Takes was published on September 2, 2025, It Girl and Big Nobody both published today. Out of Darkness: Heavy is the Crown Vol 2. is available on DVD or digitally for purchase or rental.

Tune in tomorrow for Where-To-Go Wednesday.

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Monday, March 9, 2026

More Theater Monday - The Hula Hoopin' Queen & Circus Quixote

We received complimentary tickets to The Hula Hoopin' Queen for review purposes. Any and all opinions expressed here are our own.


What: The Hula Hoopin' Queen 

Where: Theatre Row, Theatre Five
              410 W. 42nd St.
              New York, NY

Who: Recommended for Ages 5 and Up

When: Through March 15, 2025


The Children's Theater of New York City manages to make musicals that appeal to young children, but aren't completely mind-numbing for adults. Their latest, The Hula Hoopin' Queen, is based on the book of the same name by Thelma Lynn Godin. The show is loaded with interesting characters, upbeat songs, lively dances plus some energetic hula hooping. Even the set is vibrant and colorful. It all adds up to an engaging way for kids to learn some important lessons about community and family with a show that even adults can appreciate.


For more about The Hula Hoopin' Queen or to purchase tickets, visit 

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We were given complimentary tickets to Circus Quixote for review purposes. Any and all opinions expressed here are our own.

What: Circus Quixote

Where: Matthews Theatre
             McCarter Theatre Center
             91 University Pl.
            Princeton, NJ

Who: Recommended for Ages  8 and Up

When: Through March 15, 2025



Circus Quixote is based on Don Quixote by Miguel De Cervantes, which also inspired the musical Man of La Mancha. Unlike that show, however, this is not a musical, although there is some singing. It is a show that can appeal to both slightly older children and adults. Children under 8 might not have the attention span for the 2-hour-plus running time. Also, the subject matter will likely go over their heads.
  

The story, for anyone unfamiliar with it, revolves around a man who imagines himself a knight and seeks to right the wrongs of the world. It is really an allegory regarding the ideal of heroism. This version of the show, as the title suggests, is filled with amazing aerial and other circus tricks. It is a production of the Lookingglass Theatre Company, known for Alice, their acrobatic version of Alice in Wonderland, which appeared on PBS several seasons ago. It is truly an exciting and eye-catching show, although it can feel a bit long at times. 


And that's our view. For more about Circus Quixote or to purchase tickets, visit www.mccarter.org

Tune in tomorrow for Tips for Tuesday.

Photo credits:
All Hula Hoopin' Queen photos by Lauren Hinton 
All Circus Quixote production photos by T. Charles Erickson

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